My first piece of advice on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Being dumped by someone you love is probably the worst feeling you can ever have. You put so much time and effort into a relationship and this is the kind of gratitude you get in return. A lot of times you can’t see it coming because you’re blinded by love but in reality a lot of times it’s right in front of you.

All the signs are there – they’ve been acting distant & different, not calling you back, spending more time with the guys; basically acting what you would call “not normal to you”. You ask them what’s wrong and you get the same old answer. “Nothing’s wrong”. Then out of nowhere, you get dumped!

You feel horrible and you feel like your life is over. You can’t figure out what went wrong and this feeling inside of you won’t go away and affects everything you do. Face it “LIFE SUCKS,” you keep telling yourself. All you keep thinking about is “How to get your ex boyfriend back.”

I know everyone is different and handles things in different ways but the bottom line is you’re on the wrong end and you have no control over your feelings and the heart is much stronger then the head, which makes you do things that you would not normally do.
So when this happened to me, I did all these irrational things I wouldn’t normally not do like try to make him pity me , beg and plead him to get back together with me, make him feel guilty about breaking up with me, and acting really depressed around him so he would feel bad for me.

Every single one of those things I did actually made it worse and pushed him farther away from me. I know it’s easier said than done but if you really want to get your ex boyfriend back you need to be REALLY STRONG and be that person they fell in love with.

So my first piece of advice for you is to step back and look at the whole situation you’re in right now. When you feel like you’re going to cave and do something stupid, ask yourself this question: “Is what I’m going to say or do really going to make things better or worse”? 99% of the time you’re going to answer “worse”. Then take a deep breath and stop yourself from doing what you were going to do. (One thing that helped me in the beginning to stop myself from doing these things was to remind myself of a time he hurt me and made me really mad.) If you can train yourself to start doing this on a regular basis when you’re either talking to him or around him, he’ll notice a difference in you and start treating you nicer and with more respect. You can’t respect someone who doesn’t respect themselves. This is how to start your journey on “How you Can Win Back Your Ex’s Love”